"Love"
perhaps, happens to be the most complicated of all the emotions
mankind has ever known.Whatever I have understood up till now helps me
to conjecture that as opposed to popular belief; 'love is selfless',
love is something that helps us to become more selfish, adds more
meaning to self existence and adds new dimensions to self indulgence and
gratification.We continue to live in an age when "Barter
system" is still not done away with and is practiced in disguised forms
with celebrated names, one such fancy name being "love": a convenient
mechanism that aids transactions at subliminal levels which of course
helps to grandiose self image and affects ego inflation.The engaged
beings make their best efforts to strike the best "deal" not only in the
material sense but also in metaphysical terms as well.Those in love
would indiscreetly continue to remain as participants in a "giver and
recipient" relationship in "anticipation" of reaping the benefits of
self glorification when exact and equal worth things are "finally"
transacted.
Alas...!!! Human mind gets biased while measuring the worth of the entities or things involved, may be just because of the fear of disengagement with the "deal" itself. This results in a situation of cautious optimism and pleasant confusion which furthers the chances of inception of "nebulous" things in the ongoing transaction elevating the complexity level of judging or evaluating the situation so much so that the well within the reach "thing" becomes a "dream". If the initial investments and stakes are high, then there are chances that the "lovers" would continue to make efforts towards the realization of the thing: " the dream ".
The "hazy" nature of the business makes the task inexact and thus presents it as interesting and so is conceived as more joyful. In due course of time the associated "joy" element supplants the attainment of the "equilibrium" ( the deal: the "dream" ) as a priority and the initial agreed upon terms slowly but surely are forgotten, rendered as obsolete, and new rules of the game are sought after.And with the passage of time it evolves in a complicated fashion leaving one amused. Mathematically "Love" can be construed as a "Stochastic Game" and hence non deterministic and perhaps that's why it is a form of celebrated and cerebrally rewarding
human emotion.
Alas...!!! Human mind gets biased while measuring the worth of the entities or things involved, may be just because of the fear of disengagement with the "deal" itself. This results in a situation of cautious optimism and pleasant confusion which furthers the chances of inception of "nebulous" things in the ongoing transaction elevating the complexity level of judging or evaluating the situation so much so that the well within the reach "thing" becomes a "dream". If the initial investments and stakes are high, then there are chances that the "lovers" would continue to make efforts towards the realization of the thing: " the dream ".
The "hazy" nature of the business makes the task inexact and thus presents it as interesting and so is conceived as more joyful. In due course of time the associated "joy" element supplants the attainment of the "equilibrium" ( the deal: the "dream" ) as a priority and the initial agreed upon terms slowly but surely are forgotten, rendered as obsolete, and new rules of the game are sought after.And with the passage of time it evolves in a complicated fashion leaving one amused. Mathematically "Love" can be construed as a "Stochastic Game" and hence non deterministic and perhaps that's why it is a form of celebrated and cerebrally rewarding
human emotion.
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